Sadness

Here comes word vomit.

As many moms around the country yesterday celebrated their day, my mom, my dad, my brother, my family sat in sadness and anger.

My sister-in-law called my brother yesterday morning and told him OVER THE PHONE that she wants an annulment. She never once attempted to work things out with him. He begged for couples counseling, she refused continually saying that she wasn't ready. Then out of the blue yesterday, on Mother's Day of all days, she calls him up and says, "yeah i'm done." Coward.

What kills me the most though is that she put of all this on my brother and blamed him for everything. Many of you know my brother's story and although it definitely contributed, there much more to the story that comes from her that she is not owning up to. That was a major enabler in my brother's problem.

My brother and I are not very close at all, but she hurt him. Not only did she hurt him, she hurt my mom, she hurt my dad, she hurt my Memere and she hurt me. She and I were extremely close. She hardly said boo to me after she kicked him out and if she did try and talk to me, she would continually ask me about my cat and my cat alone. Never any substance. Hmmm... guilty much? Then, two weeks ago, she had the nerve to show up in my parents house and act as if nothing was wrong. Well... my give a damn's busted. Never to be fixed.